Happy Anniversary, Blog!

Happy Anniversary, The Thanksgiving Project!!

A year ago today, I wrote my first entries on The Thanksgiving Project. At the time, we had just moved to Vegas. I was adjusting to life as an unemployed pastor, which has most definitely not been an easy transition, and I was preparing to get back into the swing of graduate school. Life was quickly moving in very different directions. Knowing so much change was approaching, it was important for me to fight a melancholy spirit and remember to be grateful for the circumstances of each day, even the little things, and thus, this blog took shape. While life at times dominated and postings were not daily, having an attitude of gratitude was a priority in my life.

With its cornucopia of blessings, 2010 was a monumental year in my life, and now as I look back upon 2011, I can see the blessings are just as plentiful as in the previous year.

Looking back, the highlights include:

• Five trips to Haiti, including a month-long stay
• Three semesters of Seminary
• Three trips to Arkansas for Solar Under The Sun training and meetings
• Two trips to Tennessee for Living Waters for the World meetings
• One new job 
• Numerous visits from fantastic friends and family
• And a partridge in a pear tree

The blog itself has been a great part of everyday (or almost everyday) life, and what amazed me even more were that people actually read the blog! In fact, while most of my readers do come from the US, a shout-out to those in Russia & Malaysia who are also faithful readers! Perhaps you'd like to catch up on reading? These were the top ten posts viewed over the past year:

• Happy Birthday, Michael, September 1
• Family Date Night, June 24
• Happy Fathers' Day, June 19
• Haiti Trip, March 6
• Bucket List, July 23
• Grandmother Names, October 8
• 50 Day Song Challenge, May 2
• Birthdays, December 4
• Carrie Delisio, February 16
• Prayer Partners, February 20

And so, Happy Anniversary Thanksgiving Project! The upcoming year is sure to be just as exciting with a multitude of blessings & bloggings. The year will start with a bang when two precious gals from northern Virginia, Allison & Diana, will visit us the first week in January, and quickly thereafter two trips to Haiti will be upon us! The challenge will be to live life with a bit of gumption, enjoying life in the moment and living each passing second with joy and thanksgiving without being caught up in the balderdash and whirlwind of travel and work.

Grace & peace be with each of you, and many thanks to you for joining me along this journey.

Carolina Basketball Museum

Logo signed by UNC Basketball Alumni present at the opening of the Carolina Basketball Museum.

Thanksgiving of the Day: Time with Dad 

Of the many great memories of my life, time with my dad ranks high on the list. We have incredible adventures, from nighttime road trips to Tahoe & Reno, to sunset watching in CA, to meeting up for baseball games and basketball games all over the country.

The weekend before Christmas, we met in Chapel Hill for a bit of bonding time...as it just so happened UNC was playing Appalachian State. Either way, I knew I'd be happy with the outcome!

On Saturday, we went to the "new" Carolina Basketball Museum. The museum was built to honor the 100 year anniversary of North Carolina Basketball success. It's been open now for over a year, maybe two, but neither of us had had the opportunity to explore the halls of greatness.

Those of you who know me well know that I could not care less about museums. I race through them, barely taking notice of a word written nor pausing long enough to see the cases. However, this was different. It lived up to every expectation possible with displays cases, videos, signed memorabilia, championship trophies and rings, special displays for Dean Smith, Michael Jordan, and Tyler Hansbrough. In a word, it was heavenly.

The floor was the former basketball court, as seen below. Spots on the floor marked famous shots in UNC basketball history - a three-pointer drained for a buzzer beater versus Duke, etc. Jerseys lined the cases, along with sneakers, MVP trophies, a letter to Michael Jordan from Duke's Coach K. I couldn't get enough of it! AND following our museum tour, there was still a basketball game to attend. This will go down as one of the best days in 2011, if not life in general, and what made it even better was to spend it with my dad. I am so thankful for these opportunities and our mutual love of the Tar Heels!

This room at the end holds the national championship trophies and rings. 

Christmas Eve

Luke 2:1-20

In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. (This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) And everyone went to their own town to register.

So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.

Merry Christmas Eve to our Friends and Family!

At the dinner table this evening, we took a page out of the Thanksgiving Project and each gave thanks for the things in our lives. While girls and automatic weapons were listed, so were our friends, family, health and joy. I, especially, had much to be grateful for with the best husband in the world, two amazing sons, a family who supports me, a job that continues to inspire me, good health, and reaching the halfway mark in my masters program.

The boys also presented me with a birthday cake, as we celebrated my and Jesus' birthdays this evening before going to the traditional Christmas Eve Service. Carols and candlelight will fill the sanctuary as we are reminded of the reason for celebrating this peaceful, joyous holiday. It's my most favorite event of the Advent season, something I truly look forward to every year.

And thus, I bid you farewell, and leave you with a quote from the Who's in Whoville:

Christmastime will always be, just as long as we have we.

One Solitary Life

My friend, Carl, posted this yesterday on his blog. This is one of my most favorite poems to read at Christmas and Easter, reminding me of the profound effect one solitary life can have on this world and its people. Read. Enjoy. Ponder. Ask yourself this - if we are to follow the example of Christ, what are you doing with your one solitary life? What is God calling you to do? What do you need to do to obey that call? We only have this one solitary life. Follow Him. Learn from Him. Be with Him!

One Solitary Life

He was born in an obscure village
The child of a peasant woman
He grew up in another obscure village
Where he worked in a carpenter shop
Until he was thirty

He never wrote a book
He never held an office
He never went to college
He never visited a big city
He never travelled more than two hundred miles
From the place where he was born
He did none of the things
Usually associated with greatness
He had no credentials but himself

He was only thirty three

His friends ran away
One of them denied him
He was turned over to his enemies
And went through the mockery of a trial
He was nailed to a cross between two thieves
While dying, his executioners gambled for his clothing
The only property he had on earth

When he was dead
He was laid in a borrowed grave
Through the pity of a friend

Nineteen centuries have come and gone
And today Jesus is the central figure of the human race
And the leader of mankind's progress
All the armies that have ever marched
All the navies that have ever sailed
All the parliaments that have ever sat
All the kings that ever reigned put together
Have not affected the life of mankind on earth
As powerfully as that one solitary life 

This essay was adapted from a sermon by Dr James Allan Francis in “The Real Jesus and Other Sermons.”

LEGOS

I love Legos... You know, the pieces you put together and build magnificent toys out of! As a kid, I owned about 114,603,302 Lego pieces and kept them neatly in a little suitcase!

During a late-night Target run, we ran across the Legos Advent Calendar. What a perfect idea! Each day, you open a door and it gives you pieces. By the 24th day, we'll have all of the pieces needed to build a "Lego City." It's pretty fantastic; however, I'd like to encourage Legos to make a "nativity scene" Advent calendar next year! Just seems more appropriate!

So today I am thankful for Legos, the joy they bring me while thinking back to childhood, and the joy they continue to bring me through a Lego Advent Calendar. Even more, after watching the video below, how could you not be in the Christmas spirit?

Linus

On a very long list of great movies, Charlie Brown Christmas is my all-time favorite Christmas flick.

Every year during the hustle and bustle, the shopping and the decorating, the greed and the stress, Linus calls us all to take a minute, relax and remember was Christmas is truly about.

So today, I am thankful for Linus and his simple monologue to bring us back to the heart of Christmas.

Dembangers

I love exclamation points. They seem to emphasize points, communicate excitement, and simply make reading more delightful! As you may have noticed from many of my posts, I am a little exclamation point happy! Some even choose to poke fun due to the over-usage... In my chatting with another friend this week, he referred to the punctuation mark as an exclamation MARK. I've already differentiated a question mark from an exclamation point.

This started an entire conversation with my best friend, Jay, when I asked, "So is it an exclamation point or an exclamation mark?" Here is his answer...

The exclamation mark, exclamation point, or bang, or "dembanger" is a punctuation mark usually used after an interjection or exclamation to indicate strong feelings or high volume (shouting) -  Google

I wonder if it is possible to do my whole job, or anyone’s whole job, with just Google. Anytime there is a question, just Google until you get the answer.

That would make a great reality TV show. Someone is at work; a question comes up, then he gets voted off the show unless he can Google the right answer … from the top of a speeding train ! 

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And so, I am thankful for dembangers, and yes, from now on, they will be referred to solely as dembangers. I'm also thankful for my best friend, Jay, and my former youth pastor, Carl, and their natural affinity for dembangers, as well. 

Mother Teresa

Sometimes you simply need a little Mother Teresa in your life... This is a beautifully written piece attributed to her:


People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies.
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you.
Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight.
Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten.
Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough.
Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.

Birthdays

Remember Charles Dickens' book, A Tale of Two Cities? The best line, and most quoted, of the book is "It was the best of times, it was the worst of times." In looking back at the last week, it has been the best of times, the best of times!

So how about a top ten list of the best of times, the best of times?

In the spirit of David Letterman, the following are the top ten reasons this birthday was THE best birthday week:

10) By divine intervention, I was able to finish a week's worth of school in two days in order to relax and celebrate the rest of the week!

9) Thankfully, I have flexibility in my work schedule to spend quality time with friends and family who joined me in celebration!

8) UNC put on a GREAT show against Kentucky, despite ultimately losing. As ESPN tweeted after the game, "Dear UNC & Kentucky, can we do this again in March?" Yes, please...as long as UNC wins.

7) Tim Tebow led the Denver Broncos to another miraculous win with fourth quarter heroics. I love this epic Tebow quote, "I dealt with the uncertainty the way that I've always tried to: I don't know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future. That's what gives me hope and peace and it is what I lean on."

6) One of my favorite families in Virginia, the Blocks, sent an awesome Hoops & YoYo card to make me laugh and included a beautiful family picture to make me miss them even more.

5) My best friend, Jay, sent me a fantastic card. (Hyperboles are the best thing EVER!)

4) I received 213 birthday wishes on Facebook, another 12 shout-outs on Twitter and one blog, and numerous phone calls from dear friends across the world. How incredibly blessed I feel to have so much love surrounding me. Wow.

3) Michael is finally completely moved in to our house!

2) Following this exciting week, the house emptied out with the boys going on a road trip, and I have been showered with quiet and relaxation!

1) At a quarter to midnight before my birthday, I was standing in front of the Bellagio fountains while Andrea Bocelli's Time To Say Goodbye choreographed the dancing water bursting to the sky. As my older son Clint said, I got to celebrate my birthday in Vegas! Wow.

In fact, I could probably make a top twenty list of things I am thankful for this birthday week. Ultimately, the thanksgiving comes in the form of great friends, a great family, and the opportunity to celebrate another year of life. Not a minute goes by I am not thankful for all of the blessings bestowed upon my life. Often I sit back, shake my head, and wonder how I got so lucky?

Happy Thanksgiving, November 24, 2011

Count your blessings, name them one by one... Count your many blessings, see what God has done! 

This hymn has been running through my mind all morning long, as I've been whistling and cooking in the kitchen. Our blessings this year are too numerous to count, but we try to face each and every day with an attitude of gratitude. (After all, that's why this blog was started!)

It is a low-key day at the Broadhurst house. One son is with his wife and her family, and the other son is with his mom and her family. Both of my parents are back on the east coast with the rest of my family! Thus, it's just me and John, and we are enjoying the quiet simplicity of a day with football, yummy food, and beautiful weather. We are thankful for each other, for our family members who aren't with us, and for the love they give us each day. Not a day goes by that I am not thankful for our loved ones, friends and family, and the joy they share with us.

From our family to yours, Happy Thanksgiving, and may we always be mindful of the words from Psalm 100 ... The glory on this day goes straight to God!

Shout for joy to the LORD, all the earth. 

Worship the LORD with gladness; come before him with joyful songs. 

Know that the LORD is God. 

It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; 

give thanks to him and praise his name. 

For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; 

his faithfulness continues through all generations.

Thanksgiving Month, Day 21, November 21

Thanksgiving of the Day: Old Friends

Today I was able to have a wonderful phone call catch up with a dear friend. She was once in my youth group in Houston, and now she's a Georgetown graduate living in DC. I'm so proud of her, and I'm so thankful after all these years we've surpassed the pastor/youth relationship and we've become great friends! How lucky am I?

Here's to old (or ol'!) friends! Love you much, Karen!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 20, November 20

Thanksgiving of the Day: The Village People

Last night, one of my Vegas friends and I went to see the Village People! Yes, after 35 years, these six men over 60 are alive and kicking! It's the original band, just older, flabbier, and not quite as energetic! They did put on quite the show. They were full of laughter, sarcasm, and though I never wish to see older men doing hip thrusts again, they still had great rhythm and singing voices!

As my friend said, we had to go. How can you possibly live in Vegas and not go see The Village People while they are on tour?!  Enjoy the wonderful clip below! Dance your heart out!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 19, November 19

Many children in Haiti use whatever ground they can find for a toilet.

Toilets in Xmaben, Mexico

Thanksgiving of the Day: TOILETS


Imagine life without a toilet. No toilets at your office. No toilets at your home. No toilets anywhere. Imagine the mess. Imagine the disease. 


It's hard to imagine life without something we take for granted, but this is the daily reality for 2.6 billion people. 40% of the world's population do not have access to adequate sanitation. That's 2.6 billion people having to practice open defecation and urination. It's no wonder the rivers and streams are polluted, which lead to water borne diseases, such as diarrhea, CHOLERA, and dysentrery. Others resort to roadsides, buckets, plastic bags and open fields. This gross way of living most often leads to death. 


Shouldn't sanitation be a high priority for every government and society on earth? Let's cut the crap! No invention has saved the lives more than a simple toilet!

A toilet in Cap Haitien, 
Haiti.
Shouldn't every one be 
given this privilege?

Thankfully, the world is starting to take notice! Today marks the 10th anniversary of World Toilet Day. World Toilet Organization created World Toilet Day to raise global awareness of the struggle 2.6 billion face every day without access to proper, clean sanitation. World Toilet Day also brings to the forefront the health, emotional and psychological consequences the poor endure as a result of inadequate sanitation. It's time to stop being afraid to talk about poop and starting taking the initiative and sharing our thoughts to give 2.6 billion people the hope to survive.


Today, when you sit on your throne and read your newspaper, think of all of the children in the world who do not have the same luxury. What can you do to help save their lives? How can you help to spread the word? How will you make a difference?

Thanksgiving Month, Day 18, November 18

Thanksgiving of the Day: Naps

Exhaustion has set with the amount of traveling over the past year. These last few days have been filled with naps and 8:30pm bedtimes. Thus, I am thankful for naps and thankful my work and school has allowed me time to have said naps. Just one more please??

Thanksgiving Month, Day 17, November 17

Courtesy of Getty Images

Thanksgiving of the Day: Tim Tebow


Colossians 3:15, "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful."


Last night, Tim Tebow posted this verse on Facebook, Twitter, and his wristband before going into the game against the NY Jets. While he started by posted Philippians 4:13 for many football seasons, he changed it up before his last national championship game as a Florida Gator, and John 3:16 was googled a record-breaking number of times. Since becoming a Denver Bronco, he has worn (or posted) a different verse for every game, and game after game, readers flock to the internet to type in the verse and read it. Has there been another athlete, another celebrity, any other Christian who has had this big of an impact in spreading the Gospel message? Maybe Billy Graham. Maybe Mother Teresa. 


Sure, he's not the best quarterback. Sure, he has an unorthodox throwing style. Sure, he has happy feet and refuses to stay in the pocket. But, he is a leader. He calls for his teammates to jump on board, and they flock to him. He wills them to work harder and win. 


So while it may seem a bit cliche to be thankful for Tim Tebow, I am thankful for the example he lives and the Gospel he spreads through his everyday life. 


(For more exciting blog posts on Tim Tebow, visit Carl Jones' blog and Brian Skinnell's blog. They have a much better point of view and writing style!)

Thanksgiving Month, Day 16, November 16

Thanksgiving of the Day: HOME!

After all of the traveling fun, I am finally home. It's as simple as that...I am thankful for home! I am thankful for my couch, a blanket and a pillow...and for the many naps taken today!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 15, November 15

Thanksgiving of the Day: Unlikely Friends

When sitting around in an airport for hours stuck in a situation you would rather not be in, it's better to make the best instead of complain and portray a negative attitude. After wrapping up two days worth of Solar Under The Sun meetings and a last minute conference call with future teams going to Haiti, it was time to go to the airport and begin the journey home. It was the first time in quite some time that I was simply aching to get home and stay home. There has been so much traveling lately, I was beginning to feel a little homesick.

In Little Rock, it had been raining all day long, and the thunder and lightening picked up immensely. Our flight boarding time came and went, and no one was there to give us updates. It was only after we should have taken off and still did not have a plane at our departing gate, we were told it may be a long wait.

While standing in line with a group of folks in Little Rock as we all awaited new itineraries, a few of us joked and laughed and made the best of our situation. Three hours later, those same few ended up in the same hotel shuttle and hotel check-in line for ninety minutes. We have a choice -- to complain and negatively impact those around us OR to smile, joke, and make friends with those around us. It is a time to hear the stories of others and to share the joys of your life. So though I was stuck in a hotel for yet another night away from home, I am thankful for the unlikely group of comrades who made a bad situation worthwhile.

Thanksgiving Month, Day 14, November 14

Thanksgiving of the Day: Solar Under The Sun 


Today marks the first Solar Under The Sun Board meeting since I came along as the administrative director. These last few months working with SUTS has been a great thanksgiving of my life. Though the agenda was lengthy, the discussion was thoughtful, fruitful and very needed. We came away with a gazillion action items and to-do lists and a greater vision of where we are going and where we need to be.

I am thankful for the group of colleagues that took time out of their hectic lives to lend their talents and leadership to our ministry. We could not have a better group of people to lead this mission into the next phase of growth. How lucky I am to be a part of it!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 13, November 13

Thanksgiving of the Day: Central Presbyterian Church

In these few days between Living Waters for the World meetings in Franklin, TN and Solar Under The Sun meetings in Little Rock, AR, I have been privileged to spend time with the McRae & Ulrich families in Fort Smith, Arkansas. They have been the ultimate hosts, and I am thankful to have a home away from home!

We worshipped today at Central Presbyterian Church in Fort Smith. We participated in Sunday School on the book of Revelations, and the worship service was a beautiful mix of liturgy and creativity. Both Tom and Cathy preached, each giving their take on the parable of talents found in Matthew 25:14-30. It a needed time of worship in the midst of a chaotic week of meetings and more meetings to come.

Being the second Sunday of the month, Central Presbyterian prepares and serves a meal at the Salvation Army. How wonderful it was to be a part of this mission for the evening, and sure enough, I was able to participate on the serving line with the gravy bowl. There were many wonderful people who came through the line, each more thankful than the next and giving us love just as we were spreading love to our neighbor.

Yes, what a great day of learning, worshiping and serving alongside a beautiful church family!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 12, November 12

Thanksgiving of the Day: College Football Games & Tailgating

Today was a first. I have never been to a SEC College Football game, and believe me when I say, it lived up to all of the hype! There is nothing much better than University of Arkansas versus University of Tennessee. It's an old rivalry, and though Arkansas is a top ten ranked team and Tennessee is not ranked, we were expecting a great game!

Tailgating took place at the Presbyterian United Campus Ministries building at University of Arkansas. I am blessed with the friendship of the campus minister there, and she graciously allowed us to crash in the building due to the wind gusts and chilly temperatures! We parked there and it was a short easy walk to the stadium.

Even better, I was able to renew friendship with one of my old "youths", Alex Schroller, who is now a Hendrix College Graduate. We spent a wonderful bit of time catching up and just plain talking outside of the stadium before the game started. I am so thankful for Alex and all of my former "youth." They continue to enrich my life every single day.

The game began with a bang as we "called the hog" and yelled a few "pig sooooies". Oh, the crowd was electric, and though our seats were one row from the very top, we were able to have a great view to watch each play unfold. By halftime, we were close to being popsicles, and when the score reached 42-7 in favor of the Razorbacks, it was time to go!

What an amazing day! I am so thankful for friends, fellowship and football!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 11, November 11

 Thanksgiving of the Day - Veterans

Today is 11-11-11.

Most of the world is celebrating the succession of ones in the date, as this is the one and only time it will ever happen. However, many of us are taking time to appreciate the amazing men and women who have given their time and service to our country. I, personally, am thankful for three men very close to me who have served in our military.

First, Papa, my dad's dad, was a sailor. He was aboard the USS Texas in Europe and then in the Pacific during World War II. He was an amazing man, and I miss him everyday!

Second and third are the Broadhurst Men. John served in the Air Force, and Clint is now serving in the Army. Rumor has it, young Michael Broadhurst will be an Army man soon, too! Their dedication to our country is awe-inspiring and I am thankful to have them in my life and to be a member of their family.

In a nod to the amazing military service of the United States' servicemen and women, the University of North Carolina and Michigan State will kick off the college basketball season tonight aboard the USS Carl Vinson. Not only is this special due to my very favorite Tar Heels playing, but the USS Carl Vinson was also one of the first ships to Haiti following the earthquake.

Today, find a veteran or active serviceman. Shake their hand. Thank them. Hug them. And tomorrow, do it again. And the day after that. And the day after that. Though we as a nation take today to recognize our military, let us keep our servicemen in our hearts and prayers every day.

Thanksgiving Month, Day 10, November 10

Thanksgiving of the Day - Road Trips

Driving across the United States has long been one of my favorite things to do. My first (and most memorable) big road trip was with my grandparents and dad following my sixth grade year. Granny & Papa always had big RV's and this was a 60' Bounder! It was awesome. From Little Rock to the plains of Oklahoma over to the mountains of New Mexico and up through the Rockies of Colorado and Wyoming. We stayed at KOA campgrounds, visited the US Air Force Academy, Yellowstone National Park, Mount Rushmore, the Badlands and Black Hills of South Dakota, and even prepared for a twister in tornado alley of Nebraska and Kansas. At such a young age, it was impressive to see the scope and greatness of God's creation.

Since then, from little road trips (such as my dad & I driving from San Fran to Reno one night) to big road trips (like the move from VA to NV), traveling across this beautiful country and seeing the sights, sounds, and people is an absolute joy of my life.

Today, a friend & I road tripped from Nashville, TN to Fort Smith, AR. While it was only an eight hour drive, we saw the likes of Toad Suck Park, the beautiful Arkansas River, and the leaves just completing their color change on the sides of the roads.

Road Trips. I'll take a car and a good radio station over first class seating on an airplane anytime!

Thanksgiving Month, Days 7, 8 & 9 - November 7-9

Thanksgivings of the Days - Solar Under The Sun & Living Waters For The World

Two organizations are near and dear to my heart. Back in 2007 when we lived in Houston, I was introduced to Living Waters for the World, a mission organization designed to train mission teams to give the gift of clean water to international communities in need. I went to their training facility, Clean Water U, in Oxford, Mississippi, for a five-day training session. Immediately, I was hooked. Shortly thereafter, I accompanied a team from Bellaire, TX to Xmaben, Mexico to install a reverse osmosis clean water system and teach a hygiene education class. Following that installation, I went back to Clean Water U for more training and went back to Mexico to survey for potential sites. By the time we moved to northern Virginia, our Bellaire team made the move to Haiti, and thankfully, they asked me to join them to continue the work. This was one of the BIGGEST blessings and thanksgivings of my life.

My first LWW installation in Haiti was also the very first installation for Solar Under The Sun, as the very first solar-powered clean water system was built in July 2009 in Arcahaie, Haiti at Pere Irnel Duveaux's parish. This set off a flurry of involvement for me, as my passion for bringing clean water and solar power to Haiti was lit. Since July 2009, I have served on eight installation teams building fourteen clean water systems, eight of which are solar-powered, and two stand-alone solar systems. Because of these two organizations, my mission addiction is being met, my family size has grown immensely with my brothers and sisters in Haiti, LWW, & SUTS, and professionally, I get to do what I love everyday.

The entries from these three days are written from a "business trip." As I type, I am sitting in Franklin, TN in a leadership meeting for LWW. Following this meeting, we will go to Little Rock and meet for two days with the Board for SUTS. Thus, I am so very thankful God has blessed me with ministry opportunities in the form of Solar Under The Sun and Living Waters For The World.

Thanksgiving Month, Day 6 - November 6

Thanksgiving of the Day - Church

It has been awhile since I have been to church in Vegas. Between traveling and being distracted by sports (see previous post), I had not been to a church in a bit. For whatever reason, I felt led to be a Methodist this morning. While I love attending The Crossing, and the preaching is impeccable, I had missed the intimate worship atmosphere of a small denominational church.

It was a warm feeling walking in, and several people spoke up to say hello and made me feel welcome. Two nice ladies sat down right beside me, and the children's choir led the music of the morning. Even when the pastor and associate pastor got the "giggles" during prayer and communion, it led my thoughts back to fun banter during announcements and prayer at my last church. It was beautiful and real and reminded me of everything I loved about being on a church staff.

Following the service, the ladies next to me struck up a conversation, and in the end, we're having coffee when I return from traveling. It was as if God handpicked the church service for me to attend this morning. He knew what I needed, and He provided. Thanks and praise to God and the Church today.

Thanksgiving Month, Days 4, 5 & 6 - November 6

Thanksgiving of the Day: Sports

This may seem so very contrite. I love sports. I love all sports. I've said it many times before. I love college basketball, college football, NFL football, soccer - domestic and abroad, baseball, golf, racing... I love it all. With that said, this weekend has been one great weekend for sports.

First, the Major League Soccer playoffs are in high gear. Friday night, Houston Dynamo won their game, as did LA Galaxy. This put them in their conference finals for Sunday night. Houston has already posted their win tonight, advancing to the MLS Cup Finals. Will LA Galaxy? Stayed tuned tonight to find out!

College football was on fire yesterday. Though my top two teams - UNC and Appalachian State - lost early in the day, the stage was set for a phenomenal evening. I've taken quite the liking to the University of Arkansas with all of my travels to the state for Solar Under The Sun meetings and solar school. They were ranked #7 and taking the #9 South Carolina Gamecocks. The Hogs won! This game was in the second quarter when both the Alabama/LSU game and the Oklahoma State/Kansas State game started. We clearly had to find our way to a sports bar in order to watch three games at once. The Tide/Tiger game was like watching a chess match, while the battle of the states was an impressive touchdown showdown.

Moving to today, the Denver Broncos got a really good win with Tim Tebow at the helm! Following the game, a ESPN commercial came on to advertise the "Carrier Classic!" UNC versus Michigan State aboard the USS Carl Vinson on Friday night! My heart was racing. College basketball returns with preseason #1, UNC TarHeels playing on top of an aircraft carrier! WOW!

Oh I am thankful for sports. All sports. And I am very thankful for a husband who puts up with my sporting addiction! Hey, he should be the thankful one, right? :)

Thanksgiving Month, Day 4 - November 4

Thanksgiving of the Day: Church Staffs & Coffee

Today's thanksgiving comes in the form of a coffee maker! Upon departing Herndon UMC, the staff gave me a Keurig coffee maker, which now sits prominently in my kitchen. In fact, it is the only appliance used every single day! As Melanie, the Children's Pastor, once told me, "I've only seen you once without coffee. Don't let that ever happen again!"

What I miss most about working on a church staff is the Christian fellowship. Two of my distinguished colleagues, Melanie & Ryan, are very near and dear to my heart. Melanie and I would yell across the hall to each other, or I would spend hours in her rocking chair to distract her from work. Ryan was always up for jumping in the car and going off to a new restaurant for lunch, and his sermons were inspiring and simply outstanding. Working with these two made me a better pastor. They challenged me to think outside the box, and they supported and encouraged me every step of the way.

So, this cup is for you, Melanie & Ryan! I am so thankful for you! I miss you, and I miss our team work, but I think about you every day! ....Mmmm...it's good coffee!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 3 - November 3

Thanksgiving of the Day: Youth Pastors & My "Kids"


If you've been reading the last few days, you know my dear husband had hip surgery on Tuesday. He is feeling remarkably well, though his nights are not as comfortable as his days. Today was his first day at physical therapy. I went along, as I still cannot bear to leave his side! (He's getting a little tired of me...!!)

I took along a school book, simply to keep myself company and catch up on reading; however, after a few minutes, I turned to my phone and read through the Tweets of the Day. A tweet by one of my great pals and youth pastor, Carl Jones, said, "Today is #ThankAYouthWorkerDay. Take time to let the youth pastors & volunteer youth workers in your life know they're appreciated!" 

Since leaving youth ministry almost a year ago, every day I consider myself more and more blessed to have worked with such amazing students. The kiddos at Pine Hill Friends, ChristChurch Presbyterian & Herndon United Methodist loved on me every day, gave me more joy than words can express, and ultimately shaped my beliefs and strengthened my life as a Christian. They made me want to be a faithful servant and follower of Christ. 

So today, though it was Thank A Youth Worker Day, I simply wanted to remind those wonderful students how much they meant to me. I sent out about a billion and one text messages, and sure enough there were replies....many, many replies. My heart was flooding with joy and love, and my smile could not be wiped off my face. I am abundantly thankful to God for bringing these students into my life and thankful for the kids who I am so very proud of. 

If you know a youth pastor or have ever worked with anyone in ministry, find them today and give them a hug! Encourage them, love them, and lift them up every chance you get! They will do the same for you!

Thanksgiving Month, Day 2 - November 2

Thanksgiving of the Day: Health & Recovery

We have much to be thankful for today. John is healing and walking well. We even did a couple of laps at Target, as he was itchin' to get out of the house. Praise be to God, he is feeling okay! In my mind, I could not have hoped for anything more! Let us continue to pray for his recovery and that I do not drive him too crazy with my doting and "mother henning!"

We are so thankful for our many friends and family who have called, emailed, and sent texts to check on us and pray for us. How lucky are we to be cared for by so many?! Thank you, dear friends. We are thankful for you!

Peace be with you today and everyday!

The Thanksgiving Project, Thanksgiving Month, Day 1 - November 1

In celebration of The Thanksgiving Project's one year anniversary AND kicking off a month of thanks, in honor of Thanksgiving, it is time to be publicly thankful each and every day again.

This blog was started almost a year ago, and while I have not written every single day, I have done my best to be mindful of my "attitude of gratitude," giving thanks in all situations. This was the original intent of "The Thanksgiving Project" - finding something to be thankful for each and every day - and writing daily served a dual purpose. With seminary beginning last January, I needed to get back into the habit of writing and using an expansive vocabulary. Now I am three semesters into seminary, loving every moment of learning, and more thankful than ever.

Today, my dear husband had hip surgery. Thankfully, it was not a hip replacement, simply an arthroscope. However, this is the first time I have ever been on the "opposite side." Usually I am the patient, and let me tell you, it is a lot less nerve-wracking to be the one on the table!  They give you great drugs and put you to sleep when you're having surgery. When you're waiting on someone you love to emerge from the recovery room, you're totally on your own!

With much encouragement and many prayers, John awoke from surgery feeling like he could run a marathon! (Okay, maybe not...) We were back home by 11:00am, and he walked inside on his own two feet. He didn't even hold on! All day, he's walked back and forth with hardly a limp. I am simply amazed and in awe of his healing. Then I got to thinking... Should I ever be amazed at God's healing power? He's healed the sick, healed the blind, and healed the hurting. Should I really be surprised he is doing so well?

Thus, I am thankful for a God who can do all things, and for a husband who is a strong patient with determination and perseverance. AND I am thankful to God for giving me this amazing husband, who really is my best pal! :)

Happy Halloween!

Okay. Let's be real. I really don't like Halloween. As I told one of my pals not too long ago, I gave up Halloween years ago for Lent! (Ha, ha, ha...)

Now many Christian-folk don't like Halloween, usually stating it is an "un-Christian" holiday. That has nothing to do with my dislike. Halloween is about candy, and I love candy. But I digress... 16 years ago today, I was in the hospital having my gall bladder taken out. It was quite possibly the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. I was green. Not a couple of years before that, right around Halloween again, I was having an appendix out. In college years, I sustained a concussion near the dreaded holiday again. Thus, it was time to give up Halloween. No more celebrating. In my mind, it is a cursed holiday for me. These days, I stay inside in a cozy bubble and pray the day to go away quickly.

The only tradition I now enjoy on Halloween is Charlie Brown and the Great Pumpkin. Where's Linus?! Where's my blanket?! Good night!

Alternative Gift Giving

This is the card we gave to everyone
 in honor of the donation made in their name.

Each year, our families are much like everyone else's -- they go out, buy what they need, and when it comes to Christmas-time, they don't really need or even want anything. Besides, Christmas has become so commercialized, it's rarely about giving a gift out of love, but more of giving a gift out of obligation. This led John and me to Alternative Gift Giving. Instead of the book they'll never read, or the tie they'll immediately exchange, we give our family members something out of the ordinary.

In 2007, we bought everyone a goat through Heifer Project. By 2008, we started a theme to go along with the gift-giving. Thus, "2008, Aren't you great? You're out of this world." Our family members had stars named after them and they were recipients of a few acres on the moon. This still seemed a little too frivolous, and subsequently we went back to meaningful projects in 2009. "Water into Wine" was the theme for 2009, and money was donated to Living Waters For The World projects in Haiti. Each member received a water bottle and bottle of wine (Grapes of Galilee!) in honor of their donation.

In 2010, we had just moved to Las Vegas and did not give the appropriate creative energy to come up with a theme. However, a monetary donation was still given in each family member's name toward the big Haiti project in March 2011.

Overtime, many others have learned of this Alternative Gift Giving. You may remember the goats bought for Blanket Baptist Church. (Ashley, Ancy, Sam & Leo!)  You may remember John & I buying goats for another village in honor of the wedding of our friends, Norm & Jennifer. Since then, many folks have sent me to Haiti with money to help fund specific projects, buy goats, or even baby chicks. (This gives a whole new meaning to the blog name "Thanksgiving Project!") These are the gifts that continue giving...long after we would normally seek out a refund for an unwanted book or hideous tie.

Perhaps this is a tradition you'd like to start for your family and friends?

Solar Under The Sun offers an Alternative Gift Giving Site. You can make a donation by "buying" a watt or other part to the solar system. Downloadable cards are available to print off and give to your family members.

Other options are to visit Heifer Project, Living Waters For the World, or other non-profit organizations. If you need suggestions, I'd be happy to help!

Quick Trip to LA

On Friday, I jumped in the car and set out for Los Angeles! While my body was screaming to stay home and rest, my heart was excited to meet up with my Haitian brother, Ancy, and dear friend, Father Desire Fritz. They were in the US to fundraise and speak to Haiti Healthcare Partners. This wonderful organization provides health care support mainly to a clinic in Cheridant, Haiti.

If you remember, Cheridant was our "home" in August. We not only replaced a clean water system with a solar-powered clean water system, but also installed a solar power system to light the newly constructed Volunteer Guest House. These sites are in throwing distance of the medical clinic in Cheridant, which is supported by Haiti Healthcare Partners.

It was wonderful to meet with my two Haitian friends, but even more importantly, it was an honor and privilege to meet those whose hearts are grounded in love and care for the Haitian people. They see a need in an amazing community, and they have worked years to create a lasting and sustainable partnership with the people they love. They have truly entered into a covenant relationship and together as a family in God, they are empowering their Haitian friends and providing resources for them to succeed.

This weekend, though I was tired and weary, I came home energized having sat around tables with those whose priorities were much the same as my own. Their mission in life is to love God and love others, and they are living out this calling with every ounce of their beings.

I am blessed and so very thankful to call these new friends partners in Christ and partners in Haiti. How much longer till the next trip?? :)

October Haiti Trip, Day 9

Prayer Partners of the Day - Sean Devolites & Pat Cooke


When the alarm went off at 4:00am, it was much too early. Not being used to having air conditioning, my body froze through the night! It was hard to sleep. I jumped up, ready for an ice cold shower to get my blood going...and there was no water. My day was off to a "comedy of errors" start! Thankfully, that did not last too long.

The ride to the airport was quiet, as Lucson and Frantzou and I did not say much. We dropped off Frantzou at the American Embassy with well-wishes for his visa interview. Lucson dropped me at the airport, and I was the third person in line to go in! Thankfully we didn't have to stand in line too long before they opened the airport, and the man at the counter could not have been nicer. He gave be the perfect exit aisle seating, and customs and the three security checkpoints were a breeze.

Remember Rick from the airport on Day Two? Well, as I was sitting upstairs in the PAP airport, here he comes walking along. He sat down and we chatted for a couple of hours. It always amazes me the work people are doing in Haiti. Often it is referred to as the "Country of NGO's" as there are so many groups working to empower the Haitians and uplift their lives.

The rest of the day was quiet. I was asleep before taking off in PAP, and thankfully had plenty of phone calls to make while sitting in Miami. John was a beautiful sight upon arriving back in Las Vegas. I practically ran through the airport in order to get to him quicker!

And so, thus ends another wonderful trip to Haiti...and dare I say, I am already counting down the days until my return!

My heart is overwhelmed with gratitude for those of you who held us in the light and prayed over each of our days. You sustain us and encourage us, and we are thankful to have you along on these amazing opportunities to share the light of Christ. Peace be with you, friends.

October Haiti Trip, Day 8

The first drink of clean water from the Cherette solar-powered clean water system!

Prayer Partner of the Day - Becky Field-Ross

What a beautiful dedication we had this morning at Cherette. The pastor, the principal, and the teachers, along with our team, gathered in front of the water building for prayer and praise. We opened with a few words of thanks to our Haitian family for partnering with us in the project, and then Amy led us in a beautiful Call to Worship and Prayer. We recognized the teachers and operators, awarding their official certification, and of course, no dedication is complete without the singing of "Sevi Ak Dlo Sa-a!"

John presenting operator certificates.

One of our men, John, gave a few words of thanks, followed by the pastor. Our time together was peaceful, simplistic and beautiful and spirit-filled. It was, perhaps, one of the best dedication services I had attended. We ended our time by handing out several cups of water and presenting the leaders with the first cups of clean water from their new system.

It was a bittersweet moment, for sure, saying goodbye to those I have come to hold so dearly in my heart. The children of Cherette are so loving and beautiful, and I will hope to see them again soon. Young Richard, perhaps 12 years old, especially tugged at my heart strings. I gave him my yellow Solar Under The Sun bracelet, and I hope he will remember our friendship, as he certainly will be remembered in my heart.

Jerry and I said goodbye to our team on the main road afterwards, and together with Jocelin, Frantzou and Pierre, we set out for Port Au Prince. We stopped at the monastery to pick up a few things for Jerry. Of course, I was thrilled with the opportunity to see Olizard and Sonie and the Brothers again. They are truly my Haitian family, and the monastery is my Haitian Home! It was also so nice to introduce my new friends, Jocelin especially, to my Haitain family.

We even stopped for ice cream a the beloved Total station on the way out of Leogane. By the time we made it to Port Au Prince, there was just enough time to swing by downtown to hug Ancy, who had arrived back in Haiti. Oh I had missed him so much during this trip. It was strange to be in his home country and not spending time with him.

Jumecourt Inn

As we drove to Croix Des Bouquet, we turned up the music on my iPhone. Here were three Haitian men and two Americans worshipping and singing. We drove through the dirty streets of Port-Au-Prince, among the poverty and the millions of people, and Chris Tomlin's words rang out - "Forever God is faithful, forever God is strong, forever God is with us, forever..." It was a moment still in time, hearing those words and seeing the visions outside of our car.

We arrived at Global Orphan Project's Jumecourt Inn, our home for the night. It's been an emotionally & spiritually draining day, and bed time cannot come soon enough!

October Haiti Trip, Day 7

Prayer Partner of the Day - Mom

Happy Sabbath! We did not attend a church service this morning, even though both of our sites had churches. While I was thankful to have the extra hour to sleep, I missed worshipping with our Haitian partners. This is usually a highlight of each of my trips!

The KIA needed fixing, and a few of us rode into Les Cayes with Lucson to have it repaired. We met up with another carload of our team and drove to the Hosanna House. It is absolutely beautiful, a guest house designed to house mission teams.

Love Richard... Such a precious boy. 

My nasty competitive streak came out during a fun game of Phase 10! After an amazing lunch filled with avocado, rice, beans, plantains, and more, John, Amy, Luke, Jocelin and I went back to Cherette. On the drive over, I pulled out my favorite "question" game! Mission trips are such a great opportunity to learn about others and see the world from their perspectives. I take every chance to listen to their life stories and see what God is doing in their lives. In fact, during this drive, I felt like we had one of those "freeze in time" moments, where we were chatting and sharing just like we had been together a lifetime. There was an ease, a nice friendship developing. (If y'all are reading...Happy "No Pants Sunday!")

Our time in Cherette was wonderful, as it had been the entire week. Have you figured out I absolutely loved this community and the children? It ranks right up there with Blanket as one of my favorite villages in Haiti. The children gathered around, and we watched the music videos on my iPhone. Blake Shelton's "Honey Bee" has now gone international!

We went back to the hotel for only a while, and then went to the beach to enjoy Prestige and the sunset. The fellas enjoyed their swim, and Jocelin and I sat back and just enjoyed the beauty and conversation. Our night ended with a beautiful worship service and communion, led by Amy. It was the most touching, spiritual moment of the trip for me, sharing bread and wine with our team and our Haitian partners. God is good, all the time, and I am so thankful to be a part of this mission.

Solar power... And the beach... It was a good day!

October Haiti Trip, Day 6

Prayer Partners of the Day - Rollin & Linda Wycoff


They always say to never drive in Haiti after dark. This is because there are no street lights. Rarely do cars have headlights, and often trucks are stalled around the corner or up the hill, and without light, you cannot see them until you're in their trunk! Today we did not keep track of time well and left La Hatte a bit too late, which put us on the road after dark. ...But let me back up and start from the beginning.

We started the day in Cherette, playing with the children and waiting for the teachers to arrive. They had asked us to come at 8:00am, so naturally they arrived at 9:30am. My little girls were all around me, fascinated by my blonde hair, as always. I really must look like an alien to them! They helped us paint the banner with their handprints, and thankfully the pastor came out to help us control the crowd! Otherwise, we may have been covered in paint in a matter of seconds!

Our wonderful class at Cherette

Soon after, the teachers arrived, and we had a wonderful class review. Our time together came to an abrupt end, as our ride drove up, and we were rushed off to La Hatte. On the road, we ran into Pierre from Global Orphan Project. Carla, Jocelin & I switched over to his car, which promptly got stuck in the mud...in the middle of the market place. Thankfully, the community members were laughing so much at our Americans being covered in mud they didn't have time to be mad about disrupting their buying and selling.

In La Hatte, we had 25 teachers and community leaders come to our class. It was joy-filled and fabulous. They were a little more energy-filled than our calm, collected teachers in Cherette. Following our three-hour class, I really needed to go to the bathroom... This can be an adventure for a woman... And I begged Jocelin and Lucson to take me somewhere with a real bathroom! They took me down the road a piece to another Global Orphan Project, Casa Major, which houses 181 orphans. (Can you even begin to imagine the good GO is doing to care for this huge amount of children??) It was during this drive we first noticed the Kia was having a wheel bearings issue...

Is she not the cutest thing you've ever seen?

Back at La Hatte, a crowd had gathered to watch the work. The team was pulling out the old well casing, and replacing it with PVC and electrical wire for the submersible pump. The Pastor again was right in the middle of the action, getting dirty, and setting a hard-working example for his community. I was amazed. It was also during this time I met his beautiful daughter, Dorothy. I fell in love within two and a half seconds! There really should be a law against being that CUTE!

The work was going so well, so productive, we did not notice what time it was getting to be. Hence, we were on the road in Haiti after dark. Thankfully, we were surrounded in prayer by our partners, and we arrived at the hotel in one piece.

With Jocelin, "Papa" to so many
Haitian children

At dinner, I sat with the Haitian men - Salien, Frantzou, Jocelin, and Lucson. They are such a riot and hearing their stories makes me want to be a better servant and
model their actions. We talked futbol, Real Madrid versus Barcelona, Messi versus Ronaldo. It made me realize we really are just one community under God. We may live in different places, but we are united by hearts and actions by the love of our Lord.

Today, I am also thankful for Rollin & Linda. I had the honor and privilege of serving alongside them in August, and I am thankful to now call them friends. What a blessing they are to all those they encounter, and their servant hearts are steadfast and constantly giving. Rollin is in Magnolia giving a presentation to Presbytery on Solar Under The Sun! He's traveled long and hard with the solar trailer in tow, and so we pray for him as he travels and tells of the good work God has entrusted to us.

October Haiti Trip, Day 5

Prayer Partner of the Day - Becky Memmelaar

Children at Cherette = AMAZING!

It is hard to remember or to put into words the bountiful and plentiful blessings of today. As we arrived at Cherette, the children were so excited to see us, and we sat outside to play "patty cake" and sing songs. They are so full of love to give and yearn to be held and hugged. I was happy to oblige.

The teachers were very receptive to our classes. The time we spent together was cherished, as we reviewed from the day before, toured the water building, and drilled in hand-washing techniques.

Oh, they enjoyed the black light and hand lotion so much! Carla squirted a lotion into each student's hands and had them rub it in. (It turns clear so you cannot see it anymore.) Then they were asked to go wash their hands thoroughly. Once they air dried, they came over to our dark corner, and we ran a light over their hands. The lotion that was not washed away shows up in the light! They can see who washes their hands well and where they need to wash better! It's an excellent activity and really illustrates the importance of washing hands. They really made fun of whomever had lotion still on their hands or under their fingernails!

Cherette -
Almost Complete

After a quick lunch, we left Cherette to venture to La Hatte. The orphanage there is also overseen by Global Orphan Project, and houses 68 orphans. We were anxious to meet the community and start our classes there. Unfortunately, about halfway down the dirt road, we hit a road block. The road had washed out and they were shoveling dirt to repair it. Two of our men, John and Lucas, plus Jocelin, went across by foot and walked the two miles to the site, as part of our team was already there and needed to know about the roadblock. We feared they may not be able to get "home" that afternoon.

The La Hatte Pastor Clotaire
shoveling dirt.

After popping over to Bethany Mission for a quick look, we came back to the road block. The men had stopped working for the day, but the road was still not repaired. Soon, several members of our team drove up in the Kia on the other side of the road block. The Pastor from La Hatte also came with them, and he actually picked up a shovel and started piling the dirt back into the road. He was furious with the men. What an amazing sight he was...shoveling that dirt until the men finally started working again. Carla & I hopped across the ditch and got into the Kia to go to La Hatte.

We spread out our materials and made our banner for the class. Several of the young boys were standing outside watching, so we invited them in to color the banner. They just loved it.
Tonight at devotions, we sang a song called "Let Me Be Your Servant." Some of the words are ...

Will you let me be your servant, let me be as Christ to you, 

pray that I might have the grace to let me be your servant, too. 

I will weep when you are weeping. When you laugh, I'll laugh with you. 

I will share your joy and sorrow till we've seen this journey through.

This song touched me deeply, as each time I visit Haiti, I feel as though the Haitian people are blessing me much more than I am blessing them. They are serving me much more than I am serving them, and I am so lucky to have the opportunity to be amongst them. Their love, their smiles, their hearts. Amazing.